Flirting Signals for Women

Now, let's get down to business, ladies...
Give Clear Signals: Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it, unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better. If you genuinely want to meet people then, by all means, flirt.  However, if that is the case, then you should make sure that you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals. 

Great Attitudes Are Attractive:  People love being around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right attitude for flirting and go for it. Feel good about yourself and others will feel good about you in return.

Glamorous Clothes & Accesories Draw Attention:  If you want someone to approach you, be sure to wear or carry something that is eye-catching and noticeable to you (e.g. jewelry, knit sweater,  . You will be surprised how much easier it is to go up to someone and ask a question about something unique or attractive that they are wearing.

Getting Situated to be Approachable:  Separate yourself from your friends.  If you go out with a group of friends or even one girlfriend, make sure you separate from them so that you are more approachable.  However, use good discernment in regard to safety.  No man wants to be rejected in front of a group of women, and he may well feel he cannot approach you when you are ‘protected’ by a herd of other women! 


Greeting Him with a Nice Voice:  Check your voice.  Does your voice sound like a dental drill or do you wash people in waves of sensual sound?  It doesn't have to sound sexy, but it should at least sound feminine, warm, and inviting.

"Get-lost-nerd" Statements Should Be Avoided:  If you are not interested, be polite when rejecting a man.  ‘Get lost nerd’ is not the way to say "No."   Men who approach women may do so clumsily. If you are not interested, make it clear and be polite. It can be very difficult to get up the courage to approach a woman. Refuse someone in the way you would appreciate being turned down yourself. If you are sure someone is not for you you can say "I am sure you will find someone who is right for you, but I am sorry I don’t think it’s me."

Get Noticed By Being Interested:  Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about him.  Men love to talk about themselves and feel flattered when a female shows an interest in them. This also gives him the cue that you like to know a little about him before exchanging numbers or accepting a date.

Generate Enthusiasm for His Interests:  Ask him what he enjoys doing.  Women and men often tend to fall back on the line ‘What do you do’?  To some men, this may seem like you are ‘checking for wallet padding’.  Alternatively, not everyone is doing the work they love and the question may put them on the spot.  Men are much more activity orientated whereas women like to talk about emotions.  Asking them what they enjoy doing in their life will allow find out more about what makes them tick.

Giving Out Information:  If you give out your number, give the genuine one.  Carry a personal or business card to hand out.  This way you know that when you give out your phone number you either give out the genuine one or not at all. Imagine what it must feel like plucking up the courage to dial a woman’s number only to find it is the a local gas station. 

Go for It:  Make the first move!  The vast majority of men would love to be approached by a woman.  If women are looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share of the asking.  It will also give you an opportunity to understand what men have to go through when making a first approach.